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		<title>New Year&#8217;s Eve 2011</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Well, I haven&#8217;t posted much this year. Too much material and not enough time to reflect. And, now that I have that time, I don&#8217;t want to reflect. I am periodically reminded how little I know about the most important of topics: the human heart in conflict with itself. It&#8217;s really the only serious subject [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://the-dyke-whisperer.com/blog/2011/12/31/new-years-eve-2011/</link>
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		<title>The Truth</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Of course, I&#8217;m not speaking of The Truth in the Socratic sense. I&#8217;m talking about my truth. And my truth is not setting me free. My truth has me wound up, sleepless, restless, frustrated, and feeling powerless. My truth is that I&#8217;m enslaved to a passion and, although I attempt to make sound decisions and [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://the-dyke-whisperer.com/blog/2011/01/28/the-truth/</link>
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		<title>New Year&#8217;s Eve</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Tonight will be quiet, and I&#8217;m perfectly all right with that. 2010 marked a year of reflection, and reflection requires a measure of stillness. I learned to reflect more this year. Sometimes we forget the emotional walls we constructed long ago under times of duress, solitude, and sadness. These walls have become a part of us, although we [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://the-dyke-whisperer.com/blog/2010/12/31/new-years-eve/</link>
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		<title>A Small Victory</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Good news today for the gays of Massachusetts!  A Judge in Boston ruled that Congress violated both the 10th Amendment and the Due Process Clause of Fifth Amendment of the US Constitution, ruling the heinous Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) unconstitutional.  Let&#8217;s not get too excited though: A District court ruled that DOMA is unconstitutional. This ruling is binding precedent [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://the-dyke-whisperer.com/blog/2010/07/08/a-small-victory/</link>
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		<title>The Right Woman</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Dear Dyke Whisperer, Why do I always seem to get my heart broken? Why don&#8217;t my relationships work out? I think I&#8217;m a good person, but I always get shit on and used. I&#8217;ve had a variety of girlfriends, but none were willing to give me what I was more than willing to give them. [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://the-dyke-whisperer.com/blog/2010/07/07/475/</link>
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		<title>Toxic Relationships</title>
		<description><![CDATA[In recognition of the public nastiness that has emerged and will continue to surface from the Etheridge-Michaels split (Melissa filed papers this past Friday), let&#8217;s talk about toxic relationships! You don&#8217;t have the time to waste in a toxic relationship. A toxic relationship will drain you of your energy and, eventually, your dignity (cf. Tammy&#8217;s blog [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://the-dyke-whisperer.com/blog/2010/07/06/toxic-relationships/</link>
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		<title>The Lesbidrama Mama</title>
		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;ve seen the poster and the t-shirt: Shit happens. Guess what? Lesbidrama happens &#8230; and it seems to happen to some women more than others. Lesbidrama Mamas (LMs). Everyone has some drama in their lives and in their relationships &#8212; storms that emerge and must be weathered; however, there are some women &#8212; LMs &#8212; [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://the-dyke-whisperer.com/blog/2010/07/01/the-lesbidrama-mama/</link>
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		<title>No Fear</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I have a troubled friend that loves to &#8212; and seems to live to &#8212; boast about his many sexual conquests.  He brags endlessly about the number of women he&#8217;s had sex with: mostly strippers, prostitutes, drunks, drug addicts, and the generally desperate. I know from several conversations with him that, in reality, the reason [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://the-dyke-whisperer.com/blog/2010/06/28/no-fear/</link>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Back &#8230;</title>
		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been a while, hasn&#8217;t it? I needed to take a break from writing and the blog. I believed my perspective was being distorted by a severed relationship (it ended over a year ago, but the aftermath endured for a while) and several developments in my professional life. The end of that relationship and the professional [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://the-dyke-whisperer.com/blog/2010/06/25/im-back/</link>
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		<title>Rhetorical Questions</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s some rhetorical questions concerning a situation that most of us either have faced or will face: How long before we let what once was a spectacular, fulfilling relationship go on before we finally pull the plug? How many chances do we either extend to, or accept from, the woman who was once our everything? When [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://the-dyke-whisperer.com/blog/2009/12/04/rhetorical-questions/</link>
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