Workplace Romance
Dear Dyke Whisperer, I saw a report last week on CNN (I think) about workplace dating. Do you think it’s a good idea? I have this SERIOUS crush on a cute co-worker …
Misty in Spokane
Dear Misty,
We spend so much time at work these days. I think we can assume that workplace romances will occur. There’s always something to talk about with a co-worker, and you can usually count on a co-worker being available for chats, lunch, after-work Happy Hours, etc. It can be wonderfully convenient.
Also consider that trust can develop as the two of you interact regularly. You can safely — in the work environment — get to know someone.
However … BE CAREFUL! You don’t want to get slammed with a sexual harassment suit or encourage the affections of a capricious married woman.
If this cute woman is your peer (as opposed to boss or subordinate), realize that an intense affair will affect your professional career. That’s a risk you’ll have to be willing to take.
I’ve seen workplace romances blossom.
I’ve seen them blossom … and then explode. Having a crazed ex work with you … well, let’s just say that it can be an unpleasant a harrowing experience.
Now, with all that being said, no one has ever taken my advice concerning the pursuit of a workplace romance .. so good luck with her, and I wish you the best.
