No Sex in Relationship
Dear Dyke Whisperer, My wife and I used to have sex four or five times a week — great sex! Then, two months ago, she seemed to lose all interest. She won’t even touch me now. I’ve given her space and haven’t pressured her, but I’m getting really concerned. What should I do?
Worried in Round Rock
Dear Worried,
Two general things could be happening:
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She could be having some health problems or be undergoing some hormonal changes that leave her with no interest in sex.
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She could be having an emotional issue, maybe involving you, family, or work. Or, she might have emotionally connected with someone else and, yes, she might be having sex with that person.
Of course, the ramifications of each is extreme. Try the health angle first. Ask her if she’s feeling all right. If she assures you she’s physically all right. Try to have a gentle discussion about (1) her feelings and (2) your relationship and how she feels about it.
