Stalking, Part 5
The most likely person to stalk you is a psycho-ex, a scorned ex, an ex who has caught you cheating, or a ex who is acting psycho because you broke up with her. These women already know where you live, work, socialize and what car you drive. Worse, they might have a record of your Social Security Number, driver’s license number, financial account numbers (including PINs), and the contact information for every one of your family members, friends, and work associates.
Stalking exes LOVE to maintain close contact with your friends and family members. It’s the easiest way for them to maintain contact with you and monitor your life.
They might even know the passwords to your e-mail account(s) and social networking pages.
In other words, they can stalk the total shit out of you — effectively, efficiently, continuously, constantly, and thoroughly. They can call you at any time, at or from anywhere, or at or from any place. They can also text you and e-mail you at will.
They can — and will — show up where you are.
How do you handle this nightmare? I haven’t found an effective remedy yet. Sorry. You can block their texts and e-mail messages, but they can always change numbers or e-mail addresses. You can’t prevent them from entering a public place. Unless, they threaten you, you can’t call upon the police.
You don’t want to humiliate them in public because that might transform them from pests into violent criminals.
Don’t get your new love interest or girlfriend involved in any physical or verbal confrontation: that’s EXACTLY what the psycho wants.
The best response might be the lack of a response. Don’t respond. Of course, this might infuriate them.
If anyone knows of any strategy that works, let me know, and I’ll post it.
