Restless
Dear Dyke Whisperer, My girlfriend has a new job and works all the time. I hardly ever see her anymore. I’m growing increasingly restless but don’t want to socialize without her. Any words of wisdom for me?
Restless in Vegas
Dear Restless,
I think it’s okay if you occasionally socialize without her. It’s the “restlessness” that’s more of a concern. Does that mean that you’re bored or does that mean you’re in need of some “female bonding” that could result in a new girlfriend?
Either way, tell your girlfriend how you’re feeling after you honestly and thoroughly examine your situation. It may be that she is no longer able to provide you with the attention you need. If this is the case, the relationship is doomed anyway, and it might be better to end it sooner rather than later. However, if your girlfriend’s work situation is only temporary, it might be wise to ride this out.
