The Vibe
We know about “The Vibe.” The Vibe is the intense sensation when you’re certain that a woman wants you. The Vibe is a magical, enchanting force. It is both undeniable and omnipotent: NOTHING can mitigate The Vibe — not smalltalk, not relationship status, not physical location, not social circumstance.
The Vibe overpowers all these variables. That doesn’t mean The Vibe compels a woman to act: it does not. If you are in a relationship and feel The Vibe with another woman — and you want to maintain the relationship — you must avoid the woman with whom you have The Vibe.
The perception of The Vibe is also SUBJECTIVE. Different lesbians have different sensitivities when it comes to discerning The Vibe. Arrogant lesbians ASSUME they’re feeling The Vibe when they’re not, which is why they can appear so cocky and creepy to mature women. Shy lesbians deny feeling The Vibe when it’s there. Sometimes, you want so desperately to feel The Vibe that you look for intellectual cues to confirm its existence. This is not a productive strategy.
The Vibe exists on a carnal level outside the realm of intellectual analysis and emotional yearning. As such, you can’t “figure it out” or will it to be. It is. Or, it isn’t. Like energy, it can’t be created. Unlike, energy, it can be destroyed, as we stupidly try to label it as “love,” not realizing that these are two separate — VERY SEPARATE — states. Love involves the heart; true love involves the heart and the mind. The Vibe involves the core of a person, the entirety of a person. Keep in mind: there is no guarantee how long The Vibe will last.
[You realize that there are probably straight guys reading this that don't know what the hell I'm talking about, don't you?]
Having the ability, the accurate sensitivity to detect The Vibe is the key to initiating a relationship with a straight woman. As a lesbian, you should be able to recognize The Vibe; as a straight woman, she won’t. She won’t be able to explain this pull she has toward, let’s say, you. She may never have felt this before. Sure, she may have felt longing, passion, intimacy desire, love; however, The Vibe exists only between two women.
I know you know what I’m talking about. If you don’t, you’re missing out.
If you feel The Vibe in your social interaction with a straight woman, you may proceed to Step 2, which I’ll discuss tomorrow.
