Always Late
Dear Dyke Whisperer, My girlfriend is always late. For everything. She causes us to be late for movies, dinner parties, and sporting events. She is late to work every day. I’m starting to REALLY resent it. I’ve talked to her about it and she promises to change. She hasn’t. Do you have any advice?
On-Time in Toronto
Dear Toronto,
If you have discussed her chronic tardiness with her and she hasn’t changed, there’s not much you can do. This could be a sign of immaturity, her mild method of rebellion, or, simply, a woman who doesn’t care if she’s late.
For joint invitations, take separate cars or agree to travel separately. If the social awkwardness that this will create doesn’t cause her to change, she’s not going to. If being on-time is important to you, then you’ll need a new girlfriend.
