Let There Be Light?
Dear Dyke Whisperer, I adore my girlfriend. She’s smart and kind and sexy and an animal in bed. I really appreciate her adventurous nature, but she refuses to have sex with the light on! I have pleaded with her for months! Any suggestions on how I could convince her?
Deb in Tampa
Dear Deb,
Let it go all ready! She’s not comfortable with the lights on. Maybe that’s why she’s so uninhibited in the first place — because she finds the darkness liberating. Unless you’re filming (if you plan to without telling her, you’re a complete creep), attached to medical equipment, or are on a moving factory conveyor belt, you pretty much don’t need lighting.
Enjoy what you have and stop pestering her!
